“This author courageously embraces the topic of family violence and
negative behaviors in a
culture that often finds it easier to look away or minimize. By
utilizing the Twelve Step process
in the context of negative behavior intervention groups, this approach
recognizes that behavior
change is difficult and takes time and intention. I appreciate the
structure that allows for deep
exploration which supports individuals’ cognitive and behavioral shifts.
The naming of derailers
(such as anger, jealousy, rage, and insecurity) allows participants to
anticipate challenges while
also sharing enablers (such as love, joy, peace, patience, kindness)
that can help with the
transformation experience. Dr. Hodge embraces the topic holistically by
creating a model to
support individuals as well as structure for leaders to shape
congregations’ and communities’
understanding of negative behavior and conflict through sermon series
and case studies. My hope
is that conscientious leaders will embrace this book and model so we can
systemically change
unhealthy, negative dynamics within families and communities.”
Tambry Harris
United States on September 12, 2022